The Vanishing

My daughter's mother (not cujo, but, ex #1.., "ditsy") has gone missing. Ditsy has never seen the grandson at all. Long story but the woman by all appearances ran off with a guy that's really strange and no one has heard from her since. No one knows if she's alive, sick or worse. Leaving no contact info is always a bad idea I don't care who you are.

Now Ditsy was fully aware that our daughter was having a baby. However the woman has never, ever had a reality cheque, and matters were made worse when she moved in with a drug dealer/user after our divorce. Drug use and abuse screwed her mind up royally. After she managed to rid of him she married a Wife Swapper swinger guy also involved with drugs. After that didn't pan out she went and married another odd ball drug user. Eventually she ended up in a group home.

I find that amazing in that when she and I were married, drugs were absolutely out of the question. Yet she turned to these guys, sequentially. Anyway - so now she's missing. Normally I could care less, but I hate to see my daughter troubled like this. Her trouble becomes my trouble and well... yeah in that sense I am concerned. The woman should at least have the opportunity to see her grandson, once.

Because of the situation - there can be no missing persons report filed. Before that can be done, there has to be a reason to "legally" believe Ditsy's life was in danger AND forced away to oblivion. There lies the caveat! We can't prove squat, other than she's ditsy and may have forgot to contact anyone about her whereabouts. End of story, sad as that may be.